Correct way to wear engagement and wedding rings
Hey there! Today we want to talk about something that many people have asked us in Albert Hern privately (because apparently they think it’s a silly question) and frankly it’s not. In fact, it is a very important one to care for and preserve such a valuable asset.
First of all, It is normal that some couples feel overwhelmed when thinking about all the implications, traditions and protocols that come along with the “I do”. Among these already mentioned protocols, one constant is the correct way to wear engagement and wedding rings. Something very simple, but really significant.
Clearly, when it comes to traditions, everyone has the last word on what they may or may not mean according to their culture, so you can breathe easy because no “universal” law is going to take away your power of choice.
Now, let’s tackle a quick guide so you can wear your wedding and engagement rings correctly without dying trying.
If you are a little curious to see some engagement or wedding rings models you can stop by our Albert Hern website and you will get a good idea of it and how you could combine them.
What is the difference between an engagement ring and a wedding band?
An engagement ring and a wedding band are different styles and are given at different times, though certainly equally important. But do I really need to worry about how to wear them? — Not really, but if you’re really interested in preserving traditions, you might be well served by some of these advices
Engagement rings are usually much larger and are given at the time the marriage proposal is made. In a classic sense, an engagement ring carries a solitaire diamond or a striking colored stone such as a Sapphire.
On the other hand, the wedding band is a band that is shared between couples on the day of the wedding. Wedding bands are usually more discreet, with no center stones. This is due to a matching issue as it is very difficult to wear two rings with a center stone on the same finger.
If your engagement ring does not have a center stone, the wedding band may have one and vice versa. To this point, it is up to the couple to decide what is most suitable.
So… what is the right way to wear my engagement ring?
Once the marriage proposal is accepted, the engagement ring is placed on the left ring finger until the wedding day. Once the new ring arrives, it (the engagement ring) moves to the ring finger of the right hand so as not to get in the way during the donning of the new ring at the ceremony.
Once the wedding ring is received, which will now occupy the primary position on the left ring finger, the engagement ring (which was on the right hand) is returned to its place.
What is the protocol for anniversary rings?
Anniversary rings are equally important pieces. Symbols that refer to experiences, achievements and trials overcome. This rings also deserve a place on the finger and there are two ways to wear them.
If your anniversary ring is an Eternity Ring (a highly recommended option), it can occupy the middle ground between the wedding band and the engagement ring, representing the number of years that have passed from the promise to the consolidation of your love.
Of course, wearing three rings on the same finger can be complicated, especially for people with shorter fingers. To solve this, you can supplant the place of the engagement ring with the anniversary band.
These rings don’t match? Swap the wedding band instead.
How to combine both rings?
You may not have thought about it before at this point, it happens to many couples, but it is key that the engagement rings match the wedding bands, otherwise you will not be able to wear them together.
To choose a winning combination the important thing is to follow the first recommendations about the type of design. Two single thin bands don’t go together very well unless they are made for it, as do two large center stones on the same finger.
But, is it necessary to wear them in a specific order? The short answer, as we have reiterated before is NO, but yes there is usually a tradition and protocol regarding this.
Generally, a center stone and a ring in the form of a running or solitaire band is the “usual”. At this point freedom is the law, combine and mix as much as you want until you hit the right group.
Experiment with metal, settings and color. Think about your personality and lifestyle. The main thing is that the combination suits its owner.
Is it mandatory to wear the ring on the left ring finger?
No, there are no obligations that you must assume. Although the left ring is the finger of the heart by tradition, it is you who defines the last word on what that means. Some brides wear one ring on the left ring finger and the other on the right for convenience.
For brides who don’t want or can’t wear their ring on the left ring finger, choose any other finger. A chain is also a beautiful option to carry such a wonderful symbol with you when you need your hands free. Your choice.
Source: https://alberthern.com/blogs/news/correct-way-to-wear-engagement-and-wedding-rings
