Engagement rings for petite hands

Albert Hern
4 min readSep 7, 2021

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Today we want to shed some light on a question we get asked a lot: what is the best style engagement ring for small hands?

Those of you with small hands or short fingers know how frustrating it is to get the engagement ring of your dreams and when you wear it, it doesn’t seem to fit at all.

Well, you will be happy to know that the problem is not in your beautiful hands, but in the style of the ring itself. In this sense, choosing the ideal model goes beyond the metal and the central gem.

Let’s see it!

Engagement rings for small hands: What defines the size?

In order for you to know which design goes best with your hands, it is important to define what exactly we call small. Remember that everybody is unique and beautiful in its own way, so you must locate that specific characteristic that predominates in your hands.

Some people have short and wide fingers, others have very long fingers with large knuckles and small palms or just delicate and tiny hands in a general sense.

Locating which category you fall into is key.

Best engagement rings for small hands

The best engagement rings for small hands usually aim for delicate styles and unadorned metal bands. Solitaires with modest diamonds can be a good place to start.

In case you have wide fingers, always choose a size that seems to fit comfortably and does not squeeze your finger, otherwise you will create a “girdle” effect that damages the aesthetics of the jewelry.

Small hands look delicate easily, so a very large ring can make them look overloaded. Likewise, a subtle ring will look much more impressive and proportionate.

Size of the center stone

For this particular type of ring, center gems that are in a lower carat range may be preferable.

Very large gems can look disproportionate on very small hands, conversely, a modest gemstone will stand out dramatically and cost less: win, win.

If you want to choose a slightly more valuable piece, opt for standout cuts, which will look fantastic on delicate bands.

Best engagement ring shape for small hands

Let’s talk a bit about cuts. As you may know, each diamond shape has unique visual properties that are taken into account when making a setting and planning a design in general. Some cuts look larger than others, or more streamlined, even if they are the same weight.

For small hands, it is usual to recommend cuts that when positioned vertically lengthen the fingers, such as: The oval, the marquise, the pear and the emerald.

Round cuts are good in most cases, as long as a thin band is chosen.

Recommendations for small hands: Short fingers

The archenemies of short fingers are square or modified square shapes like the cushion and princess. Instead, a marquise or oval cut, in a vertical orientation, can have that stunning effect you’re looking for, making your fingers look longer.

Remember, very delicate metal bands. This time, you can afford some subtle complementary embellishments.

Recommendations for small hands: Long fingers

Women with long fingers and small hands usually have no problem with the popular, classic round cut. If this is not your favorite style, try a whimsical cushion or emerald cut. Long fingers give plenty of room to try stackable options, a popular trend these days.

Small Hand Recommendations: Wide Fingers

Small hands with wide fingers find their place in rings with thin bands, which make the fingers appear slimmer. As mentioned at the beginning, it is best to prefer a ring with a comfortable size, to avoid making the finger look tight.

Recommendations for small hands: Very slender fingers

Hands with very slender fingers, usually with large knuckles, tend to do best with wide band, thin rings. These will make the finger look stronger and sturdier, completely balancing its aesthetics. When it comes to diamond cuts, you may be interested in trying some oval stone in horizontal or square orientation, such as princess.

Ideal diamond engagement rings for small hands

If you are looking for an ideal example model, you can look at our 1 carat solitaire with 18-carat gold thin band and pavé, whose delicate design is meant to dazzle on a small hand, without strain or overload.

Conclusions

Honestly, all these design and style recommendations are just that, recommendations that can help you find the ideal model. The reality is that the perfect ring for your small hands is the one that best fits your personal aspirations and tastes.

Don’t let this limit you from trying, consulting and experimenting. Regardless of proportions, count on us to find the jewelry that works for you and your style.

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Albert Hern

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